This is a song about a woman who constantly complains and criticizes her boyfriend or spouse. She is constantly rude and condescending. She displays a continual sense of victimhood in that it’s always someone else’s fault but never her own. Unfortunately, she is someone who shows little kindness and wonders why. She lives alone because of her harsh words and belittling attitude.
In the song, the character is depicted as a woman but it just as easily been a man. People that display this type of behavior are narcissistic or most likely suffer from a borderline personality disorder. They are toxic people who have little, if any, empathy for others or show any sign of sensitive emotion. They can be cruel and abusive.
I’ve known a few men and women in my time and have seen what narcissistic and/or borderline personality disorders can do to their families. If you or someone you know is in need of help go here for answers: